Progress, Not Perfection
A reminder that might save you some stress: the goal is not perfection.
Perfect solutions sound appealing, but they don’t really exist.
And even if they did, a group of people wouldn’t agree on what “perfect” is.
If you insist on perfection, you’re unlikely to move forward.
Imagine you’re texting close friends you haven’t seen in years, trying to plan a dinner. You’re convinced Italian is the right choice.
You’ve made your case.
You’ve listened to theirs.
And after all that, the group leans toward Mexican.
Now you have a decision to make.
Is Mexican your perfect outcome? No.
But is insisting on Italian worth derailing the plan?
Is it worth splitting up and not seeing each other at all?
Probably not.
Sometimes the real choice isn’t between perfect and terrible.
It’s between imperfect progress and no progress at all.
In a Civic Assembly, you’ll face moments like that. After serious deliberation, your group may move toward a solution that isn’t exactly what you would choose on your own.
When that happens, ask yourself:
Does this move our community in a better direction than where things are now?
Or does it make things worse?
If it’s an improvement over the status quo, even if it’s not your ideal solution, don’t let perfect get in the way of progress.
If a group waits for a flawless solution that satisfies everyone completely, the result won’t be perfection, it’ll be paralysis.
Your job isn’t to create an ideal world in one step.
It’s to help the community take smart steps forward.